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Using sex toys

Fatwaa ID: 1157

Assalamu alaikum during intercourse with the wife I reach climax before my wife is it to permissible to use sex toys to make her climax I’ve tried fore play also but that does help her to full fill her desires is it permissible to use

In the Name of Allaah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salaamu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullaahi wa-barakaatuh.

May Allaah Ta’aala grant you strength and the ability to please your wife satisfactorily.

An intimate adult novelty product may only be used by a spouse on the other to assist in stimulating the outer portion of the genital without any penetration. The toy may only be used along with and to compliment the spouse’s organ. It cannot be used on its own nor as a substitute. One cannot use the toy on herself/himself.

You may recite the following du’aas that have been narrated from some of salaf:

اللهم قوِّ لِي ذَكَرِي فَإِنَّ فِيهِ صَلَاحًا لِأَهْلِي

اللَّهُمَّ شُدَّ لِي أَصْلَهُ ، وَارْفَعْ لِي صَدْرَهُ ، وَسَهِّلْ عَلَيَّ مُدْخَلَهُ وَمَخْرَجَهُ ، وَارْزُقْنِي لَذَّتَهُ ، وَهَبْ لِي ذُرِّيَّةً صَالِحَةً تُقَاتِلُ فِي سَبِيلِكَ

And Allaah Ta’aala knows best.
Mufti Muajul I. Chowdhury
Darul Iftaa New York

وصل اللهم وسلم وبارك على سيدنا محمد وعلى ءاله وصحبه أجمعين


روضة المحبين (ص 256)

كان الليث بن سعد إذا أراد الجماع؛ خلا في منزلٍ في داره، ودعا بثوب يقال له الهركان وكان يلبسه إذ ذاك … وكان إذا غشي أهله قال: اللهُمّ شُدّ لي أصله! وارفع لي صدره! وسهّل عليّ مدخله ومخرجه! وارزقني لذته! وهب لي ذريةً صالحة تقاتل في سبيلك

روضة المحبين (ص 257)

وعن محمد بن المنكدر: أنه كان يدعو في صلاته: اللهمَّ قوِّ لي ذكري! فإنَّ فيه صلاحًا لأهلي


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